You become what you surround yourself with. Live around success and you’ll become success, associate yourself with failure and you will be influenced by failure. Leave behind the people that have no direction in life and be with people who want something out of life because their actions will start to influence how you take yours. If you surround yourself with people that don’t want you to have success you won’t feel the need to succeed. But if the people you hold closest to in life don’t want you to succeed, they don’t need to be in your life at all.